Monthly Archives: December 2011

Dear 2011 and 2012

Dear 2011: So, you were a pretty good year that ended pretty effing badly. I can honestly say I’m not sorry to see you go. Don’t let the door hit your ass on the way out. Dear 2012: Welcome. Let’s … Continue reading

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In Her Time of Dying: Aftermath

December 30th, 2011 I’m finding a hard time wrapping my mind around the fact that all of this began just a little over a week ago. I cannot comprehend that it’s only been nine days since my mom was first … Continue reading

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A Goodbye.

My mother passed away last night with Ellen by her side. She waited until my brother and I had stepped out to grab a bite to eat. We had been gone for maybe 30 minutes when we got the call … Continue reading

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In Her Time of Dying: A Change.

December 28th, 2011 ; Morning I am back at work today. “Back” at work is really a relative term; I am here, and I am also not here. When my alarm clock went off at 5:45 A.M. this morning, I … Continue reading

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In Her Time of Dying: Reflections on the Day

December 27th, 2011 We came up with a loose plan of action for funeral/cremation arrangements. I called several places locally to get rates, and am shocked at the cost of death. One place I called had a rate of nearly … Continue reading

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In Her Time of Dying

One of the most powerful urges I’ve experienced during this whirlwind that began when I received a frantic phone call last Wednesday evening was the urge to write. I wrote a short post on Christmas when we first admitted mom … Continue reading

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Hospice

My mom has been transferred to the hospice unit at the hospital here. This has all happened since this past Wednesday. On Christmas, I became my mother’s power of attorney and had to sign her admittance papers into the hospice … Continue reading

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Hard Times.

I’m not going to say much here except that my family and I are going through an incredibly hard time right now. My mother, with whom I do not have a good relationship, was admitted into critical care Wednesday night … Continue reading

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Greasy

My daughter’s hair is out of control. It’s long, curly, fine, and all over the place. I haven’t been able to bring myself to cut it yet. More often than not, her hair resembles Gene Wilder’s in Young Frankenstein. I … Continue reading

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The Gift of Music

Hark the herald, angels sing. Glory to the newborn King My family sang, our voices echoing in the empty church. We weren’t at a church service, we weren’t singing in preparation for a wedding or a funeral. We were gathered … Continue reading

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