Wow, really?

So this lady who works in our building came in to see how my coworker (who, by the way, lost her baby :( ) was doing. I told her that she was off ’till Tuesday on bereavement leave and was having her D&C on Monday, and she said, “Well, that’s so sad. I’ve been praying for her. But you know what? It’ll happen for her, she’ll get her baby. It happened so easily for them this time, I bet it’ll take them no time to get pregnant again.”

I just looked at her and said, “My husband and I got pregnant on our first try, and had a miscarriage. We’ve been trying since June to get pregnant again.” And she just sort of stared at me and was like, “Really?”

Then she proceeded to babble at me about her 4 sons and how she still sees them as children, and blah blah blah blah blah. I wanted to be like, how about you don’t offer words of wisdom and advice when you have no fucking clue what the hell you’re talking about?

Pardon my French, it just irritated the crap out of me.